This entrepreneurial journey I have been on since 2017 has been the best education for me, on so many levels. I have learned more about the planet we live on and human nature than I had hoped for. I have also learned more about myself through the painful process of trial and error than any self help book or performance coach could ever teach me. The answers I was looking for were inside of me. To find them, I had to level up, taking ownership and responsibility so I could start living up to my true and fullest potential making my bloodline proud.
The one thing I had to learn about the hard way was what women wanted. For many years, I was partying and chasing women not knowing that I didn’t actually have much to offer a strong, feminine woman at all. I had no knowledge of how money worked, I just spent it as soon as it hit my bank account. I was living week to week with no goals and no ambition. I stopped training in martial arts as much because the party scene was too much fun. What I didn’t realise is that I was chasing low value women who had very little to offer, they just looked good. Like attracts like I guess. Low value people chasing other low value people.
I was a young man who had no idea who I was, what I wanted or where I was going. What kind of strong, feminine woman of high value would want to be with a man who has no code of living, wandering aimlessly? They don’t, they’d rather be single than be with a low value man who can’t lead, provide and protect or has no desire to do so.
Lazy, uninspired quitters who live with an entitled, victim mentality who can’t take responsibility or ownership and solve his own problems is what a man of low value looks like. There’s nothing attractive about him at all and these are exactly the kinds of men who are out there complaining that women have a long list of wants when it comes to the kind of man they’re looking for. The truth is, it isn’t that hard to give a woman what she needs, it’s not rocket science. All you have to do is look at what they’re hardwired to be attracted to and you’re well on your way to being magnetic.
Let me explain.
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